From a woman in the deepest depression over the love of her life. here I share her strength to you if this is relative to you. This list can help you pull through to what you deserve whether you are a girlfriend or a wife of a man who cannot give you and will not give you what you deserve to love. Give yourself back to yourself instead of giving everything about yourself away.
I wrote a list tonight with tears of seeing my life ahead of this depression I have been living via a man unavailable and disrespectful to his wife and to me....I dont know if this list can fit for a woman who has been dumped, cheated on, dealt with infidelity A woman shackled in her mind to a desire for what is killing her in reality can make a list like this: Let him go and find you when he is ready, but for now appreciate this:
BEING AWAY FROM HIM
I LOVE MYSELF MORE
I HAVE MORE FRIENDS
I MAKE TIME FOR THOSE WHO TRULY LOVE ME
I HAVE FUN
I AM FREE
I MAKE MORE MONEY
I CAN LET SOMEONE LOVE ME
I DON'T NEED TO CONTINUE RECEIVING SLAMS TO MY HEART
I RELEASE MY HEART TO WHERE I CAN BE LOVED
ALLOWS SOMEONE TO COME INTO MY LIFE TO LOVE ME
I AM HEALTHIER
I LEARN FROM BEING AROUND OTHERS WHO SOAR
I CAN MEET MEN WITHOUT SEX WHO ADD TO MY HAPPINESS IN LIFE VS. HAVING A JEALOUS PARTNER WHO ISOLATES ME
ALLOW BETTER PEOPLE IN MY LIFE
GIVES ME OPPORTUNITIES
MY FRIENDS RESPECT ME MORE TO LET HIM GO
I RELEASE MY MIND OF THE MENTAL ADDICTION OF THE FANTASY THAT IS A DEAD END
I RELEASE THE PAIN, THE TEARS, THE HEART ACHE, AND THE HURT
I CAN SMILE AGAIN
CAN REPLACE THE PHYSICAL SEX WITH ANOTHER PHYSICAL STRENGTH OF YOGA OR RUNNING THAT IS HEALTHIER
CAN HEAL
I AM FREE OF EMOTIONAL SUICIDAL THOUGHTS
THE PAIN GOES AWAY
I MEET NEW GOOD PEOPLE
I GET STRONGER
MEET WITH INTERESTING & INSPIRING CONVERSATIONS WITHOUT FEELING I HAVE TO BE HOME
CAN BE LOVED BY SOMEONE WHO RESPECTS AND APPRECIATES ME
IM NOT LIED TO
IM NOT CHEATED ON
I CAN TRUST SOMEONE ELSE
FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES AND CARES FOR ME
FIND SOMEONE WHO LOVES BEING WITH ME AND RESPECTS ME
OTHERS LOVE ME AND COMPLIMENT ME
I CAN RELAX NOW AND BE HAPPY AGAIN
I CAN BE HELPED BY OTHERS MORE AND TRAVEL WITH ANYONE I WANT
I DON'T HAVE TO BE ISOLATED
I FIND THE BLESSING IN THE NEXT STEP OF MY LIFE
